Girls Night #90: For the Girl Who Wants to Know God but Isn’t Sure Where to Begin

 
 
In this episode, we chat about how to prepare for your future marriage and why it's important to pray for your future husband.
 

IN THIS PODCAST EPISODE YOU’LL LEARN:

  • What it means to have a relationship with God

  • How to actually begin a relationship with God

  • The life change we should expect to see in becoming a Christian

  • How to put our full hope and trust in God, even when we cannot physically see Him

  • How to deal with some of the doubts we might have with faith and trusting in God

 

(You can also listen right here!👇)

 

ABOUT THIS EPISODE


Hey friends! Welcome to Girls’ Night!

Today’s guest has joined us on the show before and she’s one of y’alls favorites. (Mine too!) It’s my dear friend, Hanna Seymour. If this is your first time meeting her, Hanna is an amazing writer, mentor, Bible teacher, and she’s the host of a brand new incredible podcast called No Matter What with Hanna Seymour. She’s also one of my closest friends, and I just love the conversation we have in store for you!

Here’s a little bit of background on this episode before we dive in: 

So, just a few months ago I got a message from one of our listeners that just stopped me in my tracks. I’m going to read it to you. 

She said, “Hey Stephanie, I have been listening to Girls Night for awhile now, and hearing you and your guests talk a lot about God and having a relationship with Him. I am not a Christian, but I think I might want to be one. I think I might want to have a relationship with God, but I’m not sure what that really means, or where to start. Can you help me?”

I LOVED her question because I remember exactly where I was when I was asking the very same thing. Also, as I was writing her back, I realized that there really aren’t very many resources to help with this specific moment in faith. 

If you go to church, or read a book about Christianity, or listen to a Christian podcast, you’re usually walking in in the middle of the story. It’s sort of assumed that you’ve started the journey, that you have some background information about God and Jesus, and for a lot of us, that’s not true.

When I became a Christian, I didn’t know ANYTHING about God or Jesus. I had been to church a few times, but I didn’t remember a thing from it. I really was starting from square one. (You’ll get to hear more of that story today!)


In this episode, you’ll hear me ask Hanna all of the questions I was asking at the very beginning of my faith journey. 

Questions like: 

  1. What does it mean to have a relationship with God?

  2. How do we actually begin a relationship with God?

  3. What kind of life change should we expect to see in becoming a Christian? And what if we become a Christian but our lives don’t really change? What do we do then?

  4. How do we put our full hope and trust in God, even when we can’t physically see Him?


And that’s just the beginning.

If you are new to your faith journey, or if you’re like, “I’m not a Christian, but I have some questions,” this episode is for you. 

But also, if you’ve been a Christian for awhile, or even for your whole life, this episode is for you too.

I think so many of us come to a place where our faith just feels a little bit stale. We’ve been doing this forever, and so in some ways, it’s become routine. I know for others of us, we’ve been a Christian for a long time, but we’ve never really had a big transformation moment with God. We hear other people talk about how much God has changed their lives, and while we would LOVE to experience God in such a tangible, life-changing way, that just hasn’t been our story. 

If you’re in either of those places, I know this episode will really help.

Guys, I have to be honest with you: This is my favorite episode about faith that we have ever done here on the podcast, and I can’t wait to dive in.



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In this episode, we chat about how to prepare for your future marriage and why it's important to pray for your future husband.

LINKS FROM THE SHOW

Steph’s book, The Lipstick Gospel (here’s a paperback copy and here’s a free digital download!)

Steph’s new prayer journal, Every Single Moment

Hanna’s new podcast: No Matter What

Past episodes with Hanna:

Girls Night #12: A Married Gals Guide to Great Sex

Girls Night #19: The 20-Something Girl's Survival Guide

Girls Night #33: Christian Dating Rules: What are They and are we Supposed to Follow Them?

Girls Night #34: How do you Keep God at the Center of Your Relationship?

Girls Night #49: Newlywed 101: How to Navigate Newlywed Life

Quotes Mentioned:

"God is not vanilla and boring shoes...He is life beyond life" - Stephanie

"I didn't think I needed God, until I did" - Stephanie

"You cannot do this life of following Jesus alone" - Hanna

"Because I gave over this thing that I was holding onto...He was able to swoop in and do so much in my life" - Stephanie

"God wants your whole heart" - Hanna

“A whole lot of what we call ‘struggling’ is simply delayed obedience.” - Elisabeth Elliot

"You get to be on this earth and reflect uniquely a piece of Him (God) that no one else can" - Hanna

"The second you place your faith in Jesus, God sees you as perfect, pure, holy, righteous, new" - Hanna

“There's nothing you can do that will make God love you more or less” - Hanna

"His love never changes for you" - Hanna

"I'm not doing things to be loved, I'm doing things because I am loved" - Stephanie

“God knows 100% of me...and yet He still unconditionally loves me” - Hanna

Scripture Mentioned:

Genesis 3:8

Romans 10:9-10

Romans 10:13

Bible Chapter Hanna suggests to start with - Luke

CONNECT WITH HANNA

Facebook // Website // Instagram

CONNECT WITH STEPHANIE

Facebook // Bookstore // Instagram


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WHILE WE’RE ON THE SUBJECT

here’s another resource I know you’ll love!

 
 
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Every Single Moment

A 100-day prayer journal to help you savor the present and prepare for the future!

Tell me more!